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The parents' as a catalyst for increasing the performance of their child

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I am very excited/curios/enthusiastic today (15 July 2020, 11 AM), as my elder daughter's tenth class results going to be declared. I will be doing one video after very shortly; We can achieve only with Gods blessings. God has plans for us, only accordingly to his plan things will happen. Appearing for tenth class examinations and curiously waiting for results is very thrilling experience, but in this year (2020) many boards have cancelled exams and decided to publish based on their internal school assessment. Luckily my daughter has appeared for all the exams.  This is how GOD plays a big role.On the way to the office I used to drop my daughter at school, many times I brought her back home, scolding with my wife, being late to the office, scolding with my boss, nothing stands in front of our happiness.I never asked my children to secure good marks, but only insisted her to study 60% of syllabus with full understanding and used to ask her to reproduce in any other language so that…

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Priorities for spending time

My Priorities for spending time  Firstly Health. Secondly Office/Profession (within office timings). Thirdly Children.

On holidays and after office hours children is moved to second. Anything is after the above, anything means anything.
Why? I clearly know that once children complete their schooling, even if they want, they cannot allocate time to you, furthermore if hostel is preferred, they will play guest role in our own home, viz., my elder daughter just now completed her tenth class, as already foreseen she became busy in her studies.

How to spend time with children. Primarily as the below apart from playing. Chitchat.  Explaining the mentalities of different people and how we handled them which includes negatives and positives. This will play vital role for them as whom to be skipped and whom to be considered. Take examples of your own relatives/friends who also known to children.


JanataCurfew IntermittentFasting

This is the Right Time to do Intermittent Fasting (Subject to your health condition & Under your family doctors observation).

Advantages:
Firstly avoids excess food intake.
No need to spend too much time in Kitchen.
Lot of time is saved, cooking time, serving time, and also eating time, try to spend saved time towards your family members and see the results.

How to spend?
Just & Just  Chit Chat & Chit Chat after seeing the results (family bonding) you will surprise.
@Raghu

Sibblings

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Is having siblings is waste of time & money? from parents view.

You get every relationship in outside world but you cannot get siblings.
I can never understand why siblings; 
Fight for property
Fight for ego.
Having siblings is waste of time & money if above persists. 
I know many people who decided with single child to avoid fights. Staying in Gated Communities to avoid loneliness for child

I am(47) blessed with one sister(44) and one brother(41). We never had any type of clashes.
My self and my brother stay together as joint family along with our parents.
Many people asked the secret. 
We do not have any ego.
We do not calculate too much (I use bath soap of 100/- my brother use 20/- and vice versa for many things). No particular division of work among us, but only doing as situation demands, with honestly

@Raghu